Making friends is not always easy. Especially if you are shy to begin with; let's face it, not all of us were born with a natural knack for social grace. But with that said, is there hope for us yet? Here's how to become social and make friends:
1. Just be yourself.
Don't be afraid to express your opinions. If someone makes a rude remark, just ignore them- they don't know what they're talking about.
2. Be optimistic.
Even if you are feeling really down, remember that there's always something out there to smile about. A positive outlook will make people want to be around you more.
3. Crack a joke.
Having a sense of humor is important, but don't get too carried away - you have to be serious about some things, sometimes.
4. Smile as much as you can.
Signs of encouragement let people know you care about what they are saying.
5. Listen more rather than talking.
Instead of nodding and smiling and occasionally wiping the drool off your face, try to take what the person says and run with it. Add your own thoughts into the mix - but don't hijack the conversation.
Excerpted By: Timo Steve
2007 Shaques Publishing Inc
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