SEDUCING HER

Seducing a woman is an art! And like playing an instrument to produce beautiful music, you are seducing the woman to bring out emotions in her and to encourage her to fall for you.

Whatever approach or technique you decide to use, here’s how to be a master in the art of seduction:

1. Make her feel things

Instead of basking in meaningless conversations, create a quick and powerful connection that will make the woman feel something. There are two ways to do this:

• Ask questions that bring out old memories that have strong emotions attached: questions about first loves, childhood, and her best friends and family.
• Find out about things that she feels very passionate about.

2. Connect with her on those feelings

When she is talking about things she feels emotion for, do not make the mistakes of saying “me too”, talking about yourself, or asking lots of closed questions. The process is to connect with her on the feeling and then ask another open question. To connect with her, imagine what it would be like to be in her position and feed it back to her.

So after she talked about the first time she was in the love, a master seducer might say: “So you met him and you were so in love that you could just look into his eyes all day long, you must miss that innocent simple love, it’s a shame when things get complicated and you have to second-guess yourself and analyze things, do you think you will find that kind of love again with the right guy?”

3. Be Seductive

Nos. 1 & 2 above, allows you to make an amazing connection with the girl. But unless you have a sexual element, she might still consider you as someone she likes to talk to and be friends with. Hence, what you need to do next is establish a sexual undertone. You need to slowly shift into a seductive frame and she will follow and start to feel those things too.

Hold eye contact, touch her in increasingly more seductive ways, slow your voice tone, change the way you look at her – if you want her, don’t hide it... let it show! Create some sexual tension and she will start to feel it too. However, the only caution is to do this after you’ve already established some kind of connection and not do it too early.

Understanding what a woman wants, has always being the essence of seduction. The above mentioned ideas will create moments that she has only ever dreamed of and will make you into the man she has been waiting for all her life.

Excerpted By: Timo Steve

2007 Shaques Publishing Inc.