(PART 2)
6. Start by doing little things if you are very reserved.
For example, every time you go to school, work, or wherever, say hello to one person and have a one-on-one conversation with them.
7. If you know nothing about the person you're trying to get to know, say little things like "what’s up."
If they are hesitant about answering your questions, share something about yourself, such as where you're going or why you're there. Avoid talking about the weather. As Tom Waits says, "strangers talk about the weather." Try a compliment, that is, if you find something worth complimenting.
8. Don't expect perfection out of anyone, especially yourself.
For example, if you forget your own name while introducing yourself, just make fun of the situation and say you've been eating too much aluminum and mercury and thus developed Alzheimer's, but be careful not to offend anyone.
9. Be patient.
If you are still among strangers, the apprehension of a conversation may cause a delay in comments. Don't worry, that will go away in short order.
10. Talk to older people, maybe even your own folks.
They will be less likely to ridicule you, therefore making it easier to learn to talk well.
Excerpted By: Timo Steve
2007 Shaques Publishing Inc
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